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This is our blog! 2 authors. 2 different stories, from 2 different backgrounds. 2 different feelings, thoughts and experiences. double excitement, 'blast-er' than double cheeseburger! Wuhu!

Our journeys are... full of obstacles, yet hopeful. full of struggles, yet colourful. full of hardships, yet meaningful. They are unforgettable. memorable. and worth travelling together, one step at a time..

need. like. want.

for now...

Cyrus - To get a bicycle. to learn saxophone. to find a job.

Vien - Happiness, to gain weight.

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Luke 18 : 1 - Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.

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Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Break Up? WHY?????

Don't worry, me and Baby very good, not going to break up at all. This post is to express some of my thoughts.

Just now, suddenly my mind pop up this thought - nowadays, a lot of people break up, and their reasons are:
(to make me easier, I wrote this as a guy example, but it is actually for both guy and gal)
1. We don't suit each other anymore
2. I think she suits me more
3. I have no more feel towards you, but I like her

Of course there are still many reasons. But I bet you all will agree that mostly is because one party falls in love with another one right?

Well, if you have self control, if you are really serious towards your relationship, you will never give yourself a chance to get close with another gal. And then give yourself a chance to know there's a lot of better gals outside, and you found another suitable one. I can tell you, if you are like the greedy child looking for candies, you will never find the most suitable one.

If you choose this gal from the beginning, means you have decided it's her. Then why change again? If she is not suitable for you, then why together at the beginning? Try? Don't be silly. People nowadays, their mindset are spoil, totally keeping rubbish inside.

If you are serious towards your relationship, you will never go close to another gal, you will stay a distance with them. This is the way to respect yourself that you already have a girl, and respect your girlfriend to make her feel secure and show her your love, and lastly to respect your other female friends.

There will be a lot of people get hurt if this thing happened. If the gal has a bf and you have a gf, can you see how many people will get hurt. I can see how selfish and childish are them, just think about own happiness.

Don't come and tell me, "if not suitable also force to be together also very san fu one." Then why don't you think carefully before you start a relationship? If you did take some times and think carefully, then you will know if she suits you or not. Yes, once you are not married, you still can choose. But to me, I take my relationship very seriously, so even you are not married yet, but once you decided to be together on the first day, you are no longer available to others. Adultery should be included in a relationship, not just marriage.

People, start controlling yourself. Playing around doesn't seem happy, but walking along every path with your love one is the happiest thing in the world. Stop seeking like a greedy child, but keep holding to the one you have.

Stay Happy Everyone :)

by Vien

Spoke at 10:59 AM

You'll Never Travel Alone~** 10:59 AM

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