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Monday, June 7, 2010

When A Christian Falls In Love With A Non-Christian

How? The answer is don't let this relationship start when you are in this situation. Some people might think, after we start and I can make him become a Christian, isn't it such a great thing? But how sure are you that you can make the fellow become a Christian after both of you start the relationship?

If you are so sure that you can influence the other half become a Christian, why don't you do that before you start that relationship? When both Christians fall in love and start a relationship, it is such a blessing from God and it is a very happy thing. I bet everyone of us will want our mighty God to bless and protect our relationship, then we should let the good one start. If you are able to bring your love one to God, then bring him to God first before you start a relationship with him.

If you think that after both of you start then you can slowly have time to bring him to God. If you are successful, then we will feel happy for you. What if you fail to do so? What is the next step you will do? Break up with a broken heart? Continue and never give up in trying to bring him to God? Use your love to force him to church? Or even worse, a Christian get marry with a Non-Christian?

Break up is not an easy thing when you are serious in a relationship. Don't even say you have to break up not because you don't love that person anymore, but because you can't bring him to our Father and end up you have to let go this relationship. It is so sad to see this happen.

Continue and never give up in trying to bring him to God. Some people out there are just different from us, some deny Christ and they will forever do so. And how many years you can use to try? Until when both of you want to get marry? Then how? Force him to get baptist just for the purpose of getting marry with you? Listen to the answer from your heart, is this the correct way? Forcing someone to accept our God is totally wrong.

Maybe something even worst will happen is that you will pull away from God by him. End up, you are not failed in bring him to God, but you pulled away from God by him.

Before you start a relationship, pray to God and ask Him if this is the correct one He choosed for you. If you know God's answer, follow Him, don't try put in your own effort to change anything.

My colleague is facing the same problem. In fact she heard God, and God asked her to leave him and He will provide her a better one. But she doesn't want to listen and thought that she can change her boyfriend. But her boyfriend totally didn't want to follow her to her church at all. And now, she has no choice but to break up with him and she feels very sad. A 2 years relationship just ends like this...

I said this to my colleague: If a man doesn't even love our Father in Heaven, don't even expect he will know how to love you.

Pray to God, listen to God and don't think that you are able to change something....

Again, stay happy everyone. :)


by Vien

Spoke at 2:55 PM





You'll Never Travel Alone~** 2:55 PM

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