Boy girl relationships nowadays are so fragile. Most of the people now are looking for excitement, own happiness, some even chasing after materials in a relationship. Their reasons of breaking up are always that few: we are not suitable (means you can not make me happy), you should find a better one (means I don't love you actually, and you are not as handsome as the one I want now), I can't see our future (means you are not rich enough), etc etc.

Don't even mention commitment to them, they will think you are such a jerk. Some people pak toh for a month only and said broke his/her previous record. What is this?

If you don't love, then don't start. If you don't know what is Love, then go love God first, and God will teach you what is Love.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
I love this few verses a lot and I keep reminding myself that I have to follow all these. I even put one of me & Cyrus's picture in my bible to bookmark this page.

Love is not self-seeking. It always hopes. Love is patient.

Love is not easily angered. I really need to learn this.

With God, we can do all these because our God is the God of Love....